8 Signs Your Relationship Could Be In Jeopardy of INFIDELITY

8 Signs Your Relationship Could Be In Jeopardy of INFIDELITY

Digital infidelity is a new term that’s buzzing around especially since the latest hack on Ashley Madison hit the NEWS. It was reported that the online profile system, which provides a service for married people looking to have an affair, has 37 million subscribers. This is a clear indication there’s a lot of dishonesty running rampant among relationships these days, and the internet is an easy avenue to fulfill ones deceitful sexcapades.

Whether you’re hiding LIVE sexual encounters with someone outside of your relationship, or VIRTUAL ones (i.e. sexting, phone sex, facetime, emailing, etc) these are all forms of betrayal that leave deep wounds on unsuspecting hearts.

Men, aren’t the only ones who dabble in the waters of infidelity. Women are also guilty of seeking attention outside of their relationship. Although most will tell you that men cheat for sexual reasons and women cheat for emotional reasons that isn’t always the case. Sometimes it can be a combination of both for men and women.

Through my own personal experiences with cheating and working with couples who faced infidelity the true source for seeking outside attention seems to happen when the respect, appreciation, desire, support, playfulness, laughter and sexiness exit the relationship.


  • You put each other down more than you lift each other up
  • You constantly point out flaws and/or mistakes
  • You have trust issues/jealousy issues
  • You scrutinize and/or ridicule dreams, endeavors and/or aspirations
  • You don’t show respect, appreciation and desire for each other outside of the bedroom
  • You fight more than you hug
  • You rarely have sex and/or touch one another
  • You’ve been suppressing, or ignoring hurt, resentment, anger, disappointment for months

The truth is you can’t expect your relationship to thrive and steer clear of temptation if you aren’t being kind to one another, and don’t put in the work to keep your emotional communication and sexual connection alive.

If you want to turn your relationship around you need to be proactive. Crying, wishing, and hoping something gives isn’t the way to transform your love life. It takes work to build a partnership that is mutually fulfilling. I have helped couples bounce back from the depths of despair. All it takes is the willingness and openness as a team to make it happen. Team being the key word.

Don’t become another statistic. Instead learn how to ignite, infuse and maintain playfulness, passion and sexiness in your partnership so you don’t want to see if the GRASS IS GREENER on the other side. ps. it usually isn’t

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